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Your Opinion Matters Less Than You Think – Part 3: The Power of “It Depends” Thinking
How do we break free from the pervasive categorization that our opinions trigger, preventing us from being truly listened to? Or the aggressive, antisocial behaviour we constantly encounter in online interactions? Divisiveness and polarization seem to be the very nature…
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Your Opinion Matters Less Than You Think: Part 1 – The Hidden Cost of Taking a Stand
We all want to believe that when we carefully articulate our opinion, others will listen, weigh our logic, and perhaps even shift their own views. We put effort into our arguments, confident they’ll be received on their merits. Yet, mounting…
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The Fight Against Scams: How ‘It Depends’ Unlocks Your Wisest Defence
Scams are designed to bypass our usual wisdom, often preying on our natural tendencies and the pressure to be ‘right.’ We’ve laid the groundwork for wiser decision-making in earlier posts, but now it’s time to see our framework in action.…
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It Depends: Wisdom Beyond Certainty
Think about this: we all know that person who, once they’ve stated their opinion, won’t budge from that position. They ‘stick to their guns,’ even in the face of new, contrary evidence. Why do many people fall into this trap?…
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Your Decision, Your Power: Embracing Ownership for Wiser Choices
In a world of information overload and endless opinions and advice, remembering you are truly in charge of your actions can be empowering. This post explores a fundamental truth of decision-making: your decision is always yours. The “Become Wise” framework…
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Introducing Rainbow Reflection: A Key to Wiser Decisions
In my career as a training consultant, I was once hired by a corporation who suggested I use a specific company they were familiar with for liability insurance. I was informed this company understood the needs of the type of…













